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Self-help books . . . are a waste of time." - Jed Anderson
Greatness requires self-abandonment.
Self-help books are a waste of time …
Eventually you get to a point in life where you’ve tried fixing yourself unsuccessfully so many times that you begin to question the efficacy. You also begin to realize that the platform itself is just too small even if you could fix it. It’s just too limited of a vessel for pursuing greatness—both in yourself and the universe. That’s when you starting picking up self-abandonment books.

“Self-help books are a waste of time.”
- Jed Anderson
“If I am a field that contains nothing but grass-seed, I cannot produce wheat. Cutting the grass may keep it short: but I shall still produce grass and no wheat. If I want to produce wheat, the change must go deeper than the surface. I must be ploughed up and resown.”- C.S. Lewis


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And for the long term fix …
How?
“Now we cannot…discover our failure to keep God’s law except by trying our very hardest (and then failing). Unless we really try, whatever we say there will always be at the back of our minds the idea that if we try harder next time we shall succeed in being completely good. Thus, in one sense, the road back to God is a road of moral effort, of trying harder and harder. But in another sense it is not trying that is ever going to bring us home. All this trying leads up to the vital moment at which you turn to God and say, “You must do this. I can’t.” - C.S. Lewis
“That is why the real problem of the Christian life comes where people do not usually look for it. It comes the very moment you wake up each morning. All your wishes and hopes for the day rush at you like wild animals. And the first job each morning consists simply in shoving them all back; in listening to that other voice, taking that other point of view, letting that other larger, stronger, quieter life come flowing in. And so on, all day. Standing back from all your natural fussings and frettings; coming in out of the wind. We can only do it for moments at first. But from those moments the new sort of life will be spreading through our system: because now we are letting Him work at the right part of us. It is the difference between paint, which is merely laid on the surface, and a dye or stain which soaks right through. He never talked vague, idealistic gas. When He said, “Be perfect,” He meant it. He meant that we must go in for the full treatment. It is hard; but the sort of compromise we are all hankering after is harder – in fact, it is impossible. It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird; it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present. And you cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We must be hatched or go bad.” - C.S. Lewis
Reward?
“Give up yourself, and you will find your real self. Lose your life and you will save it. Submit to death, death of your ambitions and favorite wishes every day and death of your whole body in the end submit with ever fiber of your being, and you will find eternal life. Keep back nothing. Nothing that you have not given away will be really yours. Nothing in you that has not died will ever be raised from the dead. Look for yourself, and you will find in the long run only hatred, loneliness, despair, rage, ruin, and decay. But look for Christ and you will find Him, and with Him everything else thrown in.” - C.S. Lewis


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@misc{anderson_2022_self_help_books_are_a_waste_of_time_jed_anderson,
author = {Jed Anderson},
title = {Self-help books . . . are a waste of time." - Jed Anderson},
year = {2022},
url = {https://jedanderson.org/posts/self-help-books-are-a-waste-of-time-jed-anderson},
note = {Accessed: 2026-05-13}
} Anderson, J. (2022). Self-help books . . . are a waste of time." - Jed Anderson. Retrieved from https://jedanderson.org/posts/self-help-books-are-a-waste-of-time-jed-anderson
Anderson, Jed. "Self-help books . . . are a waste of time." - Jed Anderson." Jed Anderson, August 27, 2022, https://jedanderson.org/posts/self-help-books-are-a-waste-of-time-jed-anderson.