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Self-help books . . . are a waste of time." - Jed Anderson

Greatness requires self-abandonment.

Self-help books are a waste of time …

Eventually you get to a point in life where you’ve tried fixing yourself unsuccessfully so many times that you begin to question the efficacy. You also begin to realize that the platform itself is just too small even if you could fix it. It’s just too limited of a vessel for pursuing greatness—both in yourself and the universe. That’s when you starting picking up self-abandonment books.

“Self-help books are a waste of time.”

  • Jed Anderson

“If I am a field that con­tains noth­ing but grass-seed, I can­not pro­duce wheat. Cut­ting the grass may keep it short: but I shall still pro­duce grass and no wheat. If I want to pro­duce wheat, the change must go deep­er than the sur­face. I must be ploughed up and resown.”- C.S. Lewis

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ABANDON SELF

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#1 [Put this on … ]

#2 [While thinking about this … ]

#3 [While reading this … Job 38 et. seq… “Where were you when I …]

And for the long term fix …

How?

“Now we cannot…discover our failure to keep God’s law except by trying our very hardest (and then failing). Unless we really try, whatever we say there will always be at the back of our minds the idea that if we try harder next time we shall succeed in being completely good. Thus, in one sense, the road back to God is a road of moral effort, of trying harder and harder. But in another sense it is not trying that is ever going to bring us home. All this trying leads up to the vital moment at which you turn to God and say, “You must do this. I can’t.” - C.S. Lewis

“That is why the real prob­lem of the Chris­t­ian life comes where peo­ple do not usu­al­ly look for it. It comes the very moment you wake up each morn­ing. All your wish­es and hopes for the day rush at you like wild ani­mals. And the first job each morn­ing con­sists sim­ply in shov­ing them all back; in lis­ten­ing to that oth­er voice, tak­ing that oth­er point of view, let­ting that oth­er larg­er, stronger, qui­eter life come flow­ing in. And so on, all day. Stand­ing back from all your nat­ur­al fuss­ings and fret­tings; com­ing in out of the wind. We can only do it for moments at first. But from those moments the new sort of life will be spread­ing through our sys­tem: because now we are let­ting Him work at the right part of us. It is the dif­fer­ence between paint, which is mere­ly laid on the sur­face, and a dye or stain which soaks right through. He nev­er talked vague, ide­al­is­tic gas. When He said, ​“Be per­fect,” He meant it. He meant that we must go in for the full treat­ment. It is hard; but the sort of com­pro­mise we are all han­ker­ing after is hard­er – in fact, it is impos­si­ble. It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird; it would be a jol­ly sight hard­er for it to learn to fly while remain­ing an egg. We are like eggs at present. And you can­not go on indef­i­nite­ly being just an ordi­nary, decent egg. We must be hatched or go bad.” - C.S. Lewis

Reward?

“Give up yourself, and you will find your real self. Lose your life and you will save it. Submit to death, death of your ambitions and favorite wishes every day and death of your whole body in the end submit with ever fiber of your being, and you will find eternal life. Keep back nothing. Nothing that you have not given away will be really yours. Nothing in you that has not died will ever be raised from the dead. Look for yourself, and you will find in the long run only hatred, loneliness, despair, rage, ruin, and decay. But look for Christ and you will find Him, and with Him everything else thrown in.” - C.S. Lewis


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@misc{anderson_2022_self_help_books_are_a_waste_of_time_jed_anderson,
  author = {Jed Anderson},
  title  = {Self-help books . . . are a waste of time." - Jed Anderson},
  year   = {2022},
  url    = {https://jedanderson.org/posts/self-help-books-are-a-waste-of-time-jed-anderson},
  note   = {Accessed: 2026-05-13}
}
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Anderson, J. (2022). Self-help books . . . are a waste of time." - Jed Anderson. Retrieved from https://jedanderson.org/posts/self-help-books-are-a-waste-of-time-jed-anderson
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Anderson, Jed. "Self-help books . . . are a waste of time." - Jed Anderson." Jed Anderson, August 27, 2022, https://jedanderson.org/posts/self-help-books-are-a-waste-of-time-jed-anderson.

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